*Please pass this information along to the employees in your department*
DATE: May 5, 2009
TO: Department Benefit Representatives (DBRs)
FROM: John Berberet
RE: The Next Learn at Lunch
As humans it seems we are drawn to relationships. Being close to another person can be fulfilling, comforting and help us to understand our selves. At the same time, trying to maintain and deepen a close relationship can be challenging and difficult. This presentation will look at research to show how long term relationships can work and be positive for both people. Staff, faculty and
students are welcome to attend. Please see below for details.
To see our current flyer click here:
http://hr.ucsb.edu/asap/pdf/Learn@Lunch_Spring2009.pdf
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
12:00-1:00 pm
Flying A Studios
UCen
"The Seven Principles for Making a Long Term Relationship Work"
Do you want to feel more affection toward your partner and receive more affection in return? Do you want to deepen, enrich and enliven your relationship? Would you like to develop an emotionally intelligent relationship, where you and your partner learn to keep your negative thoughts and feelings from overwhelming your positive ones? Based on psychologist John Gottman's more than 30 years of research on couples, this presentation will teach you how to:
*Tell the difference between solvable and perpetual problems (and how to manage each more successfully)
*Learn the secret of happy couples: making and receiving repair attempts
*Discover the crucial difference between complaints and criticism
*Know the 5 predictors of divorce and their antidotes
Deborah C. Schiller, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Private Practice
http://www.drdeborahschiller.com
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John T. Berberet, MA, MFT
John.Berberet@hr.ucsb.edu
Academic and Staff Assistance Program
http://hr.ucsb.edu/asap/
UCSB Human Resources
805.893.3318
805.893.8645 Fax
DATE: May 5, 2009
TO: Department Benefit Representatives (DBRs)
FROM: John Berberet
RE: The Next Learn at Lunch
As humans it seems we are drawn to relationships. Being close to another person can be fulfilling, comforting and help us to understand our selves. At the same time, trying to maintain and deepen a close relationship can be challenging and difficult. This presentation will look at research to show how long term relationships can work and be positive for both people. Staff, faculty and
students are welcome to attend. Please see below for details.
To see our current flyer click here:
http://hr.ucsb.edu/asap/pdf/Learn@Lunch_Spring2009.pdf
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
12:00-1:00 pm
Flying A Studios
UCen
"The Seven Principles for Making a Long Term Relationship Work"
Do you want to feel more affection toward your partner and receive more affection in return? Do you want to deepen, enrich and enliven your relationship? Would you like to develop an emotionally intelligent relationship, where you and your partner learn to keep your negative thoughts and feelings from overwhelming your positive ones? Based on psychologist John Gottman's more than 30 years of research on couples, this presentation will teach you how to:
*Tell the difference between solvable and perpetual problems (and how to manage each more successfully)
*Learn the secret of happy couples: making and receiving repair attempts
*Discover the crucial difference between complaints and criticism
*Know the 5 predictors of divorce and their antidotes
Deborah C. Schiller, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Private Practice
http://www.drdeborahschiller.com
---------------------------------------------------------------------------
John T. Berberet, MA, MFT
John.Berberet@hr.ucsb.edu
Academic and Staff Assistance Program
http://hr.ucsb.edu/asap/
UCSB Human Resources
805.893.3318
805.893.8645 Fax